SD 59 Sure he’s a 10, but if you have an MFM will you blow him without a condom?

After one full year of recording Book 2 of Swinger Diaries, we are surprised to realize that, in this new format alone, we’ve covered over 70 topics! Podcasts are such a fantastic resource for learning about the swinging lifestyle and there are some great shows that have just begun releasing new episodes. Listeners are hungry for information as evidenced by the long list of questions we’ve compiled written in by our listeners for our show. It looks like we’ve got a few listener question episodes coming up.

Like none before, the questions in this show got us challenging our beliefs about ourselves and others self perception. In this episode, we talk at length about our “number” and how others gauge theirs too. Then we discuss the preference among experienced swingers and new swingers for FMF or MFM encounters. Finally, we call ourselves out as being somewhat foolish and irrational about STIs by agreeing with the common play standard which is that we never use condoms for oral sex.

We love getting away for intimate reconnection weekends and we always seem to work in a little sexy fun when we go. This diary story is about an afternoon delight that we had with a well-vetted single guy and the amazing souvenir Penn has from the encounter.

Click this link to listen to Episode 59:!23642983139d02bb240aaed315ae6f2c48a710e8” target=”_blank” rel=”noopener”>Episode 59

2 thoughts on “SD 59 Sure he’s a 10, but if you have an MFM will you blow him without a condom?

  1. Considering the question of oral sex and condom usage, know and understand what the Center for Disease Control has to say about the issue. The link is…

    Near the bottom of the fact sheet it states:

    “What Can You Do to Prevent STD Transmission During Oral Sex?

    You can lower your chances of giving or getting STDs during oral sex by using a condom, dental dam or other barrier method each and every time you have oral sex.

    *For oral sex on the penis:
    -Cover the penis with a non-lubricated latex condom.
    -Use plastic (polyurethane) condoms if you or your partner is allergic to latex.

    *For oral sex on the vagina or anus:
    -Use a dental dam.
    -Cut open a condom to make a square, and put it between the mouth and the
    partner’s vagina or anus.

    The only way to avoid STDs is to not have vaginal, anal, or oral sex.”


    STDs can be transmitted by vaginal and anal penetration as well as ORAL SEX!

    Basically, we know condoms only HELP PREVENT PREGNANCY and not disease IF you’re having UNPROTECTED oral sex and using condoms only to fuck that same partner.

    So it stands to reason if you’re sterilized or menopause and your blowing someone without a condom then why feel the need to use one when you fuck them since you can’t get pregnant anyway?

    Use the condom for birth control, it’s not working for STD prevention!

    Just the fact we have unprotected sex (no dental dam) means we choose an ACCEPTABLE RISK in the awesome adventure that’s call Swinging!


    1. We are agreed. Facts are Facts. Being in this lifestyle means acknowledging and accepting some risk. Theres are ways to mitigate and reduce the risks but they always exist.
      Each person must weight the real risks against the amazing, rewards for themselves.


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